When does something become something else? Maybe when you stop hoping. Maybe when you start to realize that you’ve been wishing for “it” to happen for too long but it never did. Maybe when you start to get tired for trying so hard but “it” didn’t turn out to something you’ve always wanted. Or maybe when you wake up one day and realize that you deserve better.
Whatever the reason is, do not be afraid. Instead, be glad that you finally came to that point where “something” turned to “something else.” It may not be what you want right now but someday, you will see its beauty. Always remember that there are many things that you have to go through in order for you to become better, stronger and wiser.
As what I always say in my previous posts, life is all about moving on. You can’t stay that way forever. There has to be some changes. Accept the fact that nothing stays the same. People change. Feelings change. Circumstances change. Everything changes.
The key to a happy life is to learn how to accept things as they are – even if it hurts like hell. Give yourself a break. End the sleepless nights. Stop thinking how things would have turned out or ended if you did this and that. If it’s bound to happen, it will eventually happen. If it’s bound to fail, it will fail. Do not put the blame on yourself. It is not your fault, it never was.
Now, all I can do is to wish for better things to come into your life. One day, you will see the reasons why “something” became “something else.” Trust me, when that day comes, you will be more than happy why things have ended and/or changed.