Sunday, July 28

The Billy and Nikki Break Up

No one knows what really happened between Billy Crawford and Nikki Gil, except for the people who are close to them. Everyone was shocked when the used-to-be-sweet-and-loving couple announced on national television their breakup. The fans of the real life love team were disheartened when they heard of the news. Those who believe in love felt bad upon knowing that such a seemingly perfect couple called it quits. I've heard from one of my friends who was really affected about the breakup that the relationship ended because of a third party. One friend also said that maybe because Nikki and Billy got tired of whatever they have. I quote her, "They're in a perfect relationship. They don't get into big fights nor quarrel over small things. That's the reason why they parted ways."

This is the last photo posted by Nikki Gil on her Instagram account.
This photo was taken from ABS-CBN's article about the breakup.

As much as I would like to comment on the real reason of the breakup, I just can't. First of all, I have no idea what really happened. Obviously, I'm not a close friend of the old couple. How would I know? There's only one thing that is for sure, whatever it is that they are going through right now is just a consequence of what they have done while they were still in the relationship. I'm not a big fan of Nikki and Billy but I have to admit that I enjoy seeing them together. They have almost everything required in a perfect partnership. Their families are close to each other, they share the same interests, they know how to give time when needed and all other things that make a relationship ideal.

So? What do I have to say about this controversial breakup? Nothing remains the same forever. No one promised tomorrow to anyone. Sometimes, things fall apart for better things to form. At some point in our lives, we have to experience what it means to get our hearts broken. We have to feel the pain of being away with the persons we once loved. We have to let go of the happy and sad memories we've shared with them. Please believe me when I say that there are times when saving the relationship is not the right thing to do. Walking away does not mean that we are weak.

There was once a time in my life when I felt like the whole world has turned its back on me. I wondered why and how such a perfect relationship ended. Everything was fairy-tale like. I'm sure I was a princess with my own knight in shining armor. Somewhere along the way, the princess and the prince started to realize that they are not meant for each other. Well, we just can't get along together anymore. We tried saving the special thing we had but we failed. It broke my heart but it certainly made me a better person. The first two weeks were hell. The following days were better. The next months were the best. I've never felt so happy and free after the breakup. I ended the relationship and it was the best thing that I ever did. Now, I'm living the life I've always wanted. Right after we parted ways, more blessings came my way. Up to this very moment, I still can't believe that I did it. I learned how to let go, left everything behind and moved on. No hard feelings and baggage at all.

To Billy-Nikki fans and those who got their hearts broken... Sometimes we just have to let things go.


It may not feel like it's the right step to take but trust me, it's what we have to do. Just have faith. 


16 comments:

  1. felt sad hearing this news..i adore the relationship that they had.. but yeah maybe they're just not meant to be..

    by the way, i love what you've said there on the 3rd pharagraph ;)

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    1. I'm still hoping that they'll get back together. What they "had" was something special.. Maybe for Nikki, walking away is not the right thing.

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    2. I had mine also working at its best initially, where I had also been like a princess. Eventually, we had to end, but still remain the best of friends ... freely talk about our sad and happy moments together. The feeling is great than before. It's worth the break-up.

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  2. SHocks. I just saw this as in dito lang sa post mo. Like everybody else, I too admired their relationship. Matagal din sila at diko inakalang magbreak up sila. So sad to hear about this. :(

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    1. It's really sad ate Rona. I haven't seen Billy Crawford's interview earlier. Sayang.

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  3. Nabilly crawford ako! Noon! Hahahaha pero well, tama ka, their state right now is brought about by whatever they have while they were still in a relationship. Normal naman na ma lost ka, kahit until now, i felt like i was no longer the same person before, only better! Hahahaha. That's a good thing but if the partner is lost and confused, then there's no other ideal thing to do but to let him find himself again, and maybe he will find his way back to you too.

    Ako na ang nakarelate at affected.

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  4. I do agree, if things are meant to be, no matter what happen, it would be. Remember the "Quesera Sera" song?

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  5. I read an article about their break-up in PEP.PH, and honestly, I was confused with Billy's answers. Is he gay?

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  6. AS much as I would like to watch Billy's interview, I didn't, 'cause I know that it would only break my heart. This is a sad story now, but who knows where this heartbreak would lead? Surely, there will be better days. =)

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  7. Talagang update ka sis. No need na to read some tabloid to find out the real score between these 'once lovers' . dito lang sa post mo okay na.

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  8. I was honestly surprised to hear their break up on the news. They are perfect for each other and I could say that they are happy. All I can say is, if they are really meant for each other, they will surpass this one.

    Hey, you are one brave woman to have moved on :)

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  9. Tagal din nila together. I hope they find their way back in each others arms.

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  10. I have no clue of showbiz in the Philippines now Sis. I used to be updated when I live there :-) I remember Billy Crawford during That's Entertainment lol Breaking up is really a part of relationship. Wish them both luck and may they heal their hearts in time :-)

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  11. I have to agree with the last photo tho, "Sometimes we just have to let things go."

    Billy and Nikki makes a good couple and they are my fave because they are REAL. The news saddened me! :(

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  12. this really made me sad! Because i super love them together. they are look pasimple on TV but you can just feel the kilig. and I agree that we just need to let things go. to helps nikki as well to forget it and let go too

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  13. I was quite hoping you have some juicy info as to the real reason for their break up, hahaha! Well, we can only assume but I almost believed that Billy can keep up with Nikki's ideals of a true gentleman.

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