Monday, June 25

A Choice of Taking Up Law

The first reason why I decided to enroll for the law school was because of my dad’s suggestion. He wants his unica hija to become a lawyer someday. As a good and respectful daughter, I always try my best to please him which is why I agreed to take up law. At first, I had many doubts and fears especially when my friends told me that entering law school is like getting myself into trouble. According to them, the professional school is like a battlefield and only the strong ones can survive. Instead of letting them sway me away from my decision, I used their words to motivate me into pursuing what I have chosen. 

Towards the end of the summer season, I began to fall in love with the idea of getting myself involved with the law school community and becoming a lawyer that my parents would be proud of. During that time, I realized that my choice of taking up law is based not only because my father asked me to make such decision but also because it is something that I really want from the bottom of my heart. Also, the impeachment trial of the former Chief Executive Renato Corona made me more interested in taking up law. To be honest, I barely understand what the Senators and other legislators were saying on their speeches during the trials and sessions. I am eager to learn the different laws and principles that govern every human being, institution and organization. 

Being part of the Bar is my ultimate dream. In the future, I want to see myself helping those who are in need. I wish to extend my hands to those who were denied of justice because of their low status in life and other factors. At the same time, I also aim to deliver high satisfaction to the clients who are seeking for the assistance and guidance of the attorneys at bar. The dynamic environment of the law community also excites me. There are many highly respected individuals involved in the practice of the legal profession and I want to become one of those professionals. I know that there will be many trials and consequences that I need to get through before I can make my dream come true. Whatever may come my way, I will try all my best to graduate in the law school and pass the Bar examination. My only promise to myself is “Never give up no matter how hard the situation is.”
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Thursday, June 21

How to Be Happy

The ultimate goal of every person is to be happy. No one wants to live every single day only to face sorrows and misfortunes. This is the reason why many of us are in pursuit of happiness. As much as possible, we would like to live a care-free life. However, this life is not fair and it will never be. We have to accept the fact that somewhere along the way, we may experience problems that will make us question "Why did this happen to me?" or in a more dramatic way, "Why, God? Why? Why?" During these difficult moments, it is important to remind ourselves that getting hurt, falling down and feeling a little low are parts of the game of life. These phases will teach us how to become better persons so we can inspire each other.

Below are some of the tips and tricks that each of us should remember in order to have a happy and fulfilled life.

1. Find something you love doing.
Instead of focusing all your energies into the things or persons that you hate, start to change your perspective and look for the ones that will make you feel in love. When you do this, you will begin to become more passionate about life giving you more chances to be happy.

2. Surround yourself with happy people.
Do not let other persons bring you down. Stop going out with the people who always have something to complain about their schools, works, relationships and families. They will take out all the positive energies in you allowing you to feel stressed or problematic. 

3. Learn how to play.
The most important key in being happy is knowing when to take life seriously and when not to. As much as possible, do not pressure yourself with all the things that you need to complete for a specific day, week or month. Take some time off to see your friends, party with them or even play exciting games.

4. Be adventurous.
Never be afraid in taking risks. Once in a while, it is good to try out new activities all by yourself or with the persons who matter to you. Whatever you have in mind right now, just do it.

5. Travel to new places.
You may have seen in movies that the main characters travel a lot so they can find the answers to their questions or run away from their problems or simply give themselves a chance to discover what other places has in store for them. Believe me or not, going to cities you have never been before can offer you a different kind of experience. The more you travel, the higher probability that you will become happier.
5 Reasons for Starting a Kitten Heels Collection

5 Reasons for Starting a Kitten Heels Collection

Have you ever thought of yourself being as glamorous as Audrey Hepburn? Have you ever imagined seeing your names being listed as one of the fashionably best dressed ladies all around the world? Then I bet this article is a must read for you. If you are the type of girl who loves to mix and match your outfits from head to toe, then starting a kitten heel collection should be a good hobby for you.As a backgrounder, Kitten Heel or Kitty Heel is a type of ladies footwear which is characterized having a short slender heel that looks like a regular high heel. Its height ranges 4.75 cm or lesser. Such shoe originated in the late 1950s and it has been used with formal outfit for teenagers.

What we have are five reasons why we suggest that girls who love fashion should have as much pairs of kitten heels for them. So let’s get started.
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Tuesday, June 19

The "Cliche" Breakup Line

"I love you but I'm not in love with you." It's kind of cliche for breakup lines. And works pretty well too when you want to breakup with someone. But what does it really mean? 

When your partner or past lover spoke of this line, then he simply wants to tell you that he no longer wants a relationship with you anymore. His feelings for you have faded over time and even though he still respects you and cares about you, he just doesn't want to continue the relationship. However, it does not always mean that his feelings have completely disappeared. Sometimes, it implies that the relationship isn't what he expected it to be. Maybe he is not happy in his life and sad to say, he is blaming the relationship for it.

When all the emotions and the hormones of a new relationship fades away, you are left with reality. Reality of what you want in a relationship and what your partner wants. So when someone uses this old cliche: "I love you but I am not in love with you," it could mean one of the following things:

- He thinks that because he does not feel the same about you as he did before, it must mean that he has fallen out of love from you and that it's best to end the relationship.

- He is still in love with you but he wants to end the relationship for some reason. Therefore, he is simply using using it as an excuse to get out of the union.

- He is at a point in life where a lot of emotions and other factors are making him confused about what he needs and wants. This in turn leads him to believe that the relationship is not for him and he is not in love. At the same time, he may also think that if he was in love, he would have been sure about continuing the relationship.

- He has spent a lot of time in the relationship, and still doesn't feel the level of security, happiness, understanding and love he expect in a relationship.

- The passion in the relationship has faded away.

Well, a lot of these reasons are something you can't do anything about. But there are some things that you could have prevented and should prevent in your future relationships. First of all, if you got the whole "I love you but not in love with you" routine, don't get obsessed about it. Whatever happened in the past, is the past. There is nothing you can do to change it. Even if you think you could have done something differently, then just accept it and let your mind realize this mistake. Thinking about it once is enough to realize the mistake. If you are not sure if you did something wrong or not, then I can tell you right now that you didn't.

The only thing that you can do is just concentrate on improving yourself and becoming a better person. The feeling of love is something that no one can control. Not your ex, not you. Not even cupid. It's easy to mistake emotions for love in the initial stages of a relationship.

In many cases, people realize how much they love someone after they lose them. And if your ex loved you, they will begin to realize after the breakup. And if they don't, let it go. Become a better person. Become someone that you are proud of. Be in love with yourself. For once in your life, think about how to fall in love with the one person who matters most - You.
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Monday, June 18

Hair Makeover

Three weeks ago, I headed to Tony and Jackey for an instant makeover. I wanted to change the way my hair is arranged every single day. Before visiting my favorite Korean hair stylist, my hair was completely dull and boring. I couldn't leave the house without my headband on because it’s the only tool that’s keeping strands of my hair in place. Finally, one day, I woke up and realized that I needed a change. Luckily, the hair professional succeeded in giving me the look I've always wanted since the beginning of time.

Friday, June 15

A Talk About Love

You know relationships and love are two different things. You can be in a relationship with someone but not love them. You can love someone and not be in a relationship with them.

If you are in love with a person and you are in a happy relationship with them, that means you've got something good and you better not screw it up.

On the other hand, even when you love your partner from the bottom of your heart, sometimes, being in a relationship with them is hard.

At the starting of a relationship, it's easy to overlook all the problems and just be excited about everything.

But when the emotions settle down, and you really understand that person, you realize whether or not you really love them.

It is true that if you two love each other, most of the relationship problems are easily solved.

For me, love depends on how a man makes me feel. How he makes he feel about myself, and how he feels about me.

At first, I used to mistake love for the surge of emotions I got in the starting of a relationship.

But then I realized, those were just hormones. Love is more meaningful than just hormones.

Love is much more about trust and respect. It's when you know that you have someone who will always be with you through thick and thin.

It's when you know someone understands you and will support you no matter what.

It's when you know that you will not do anything to hurt that person and neither will they.

You know, they say that with love comes jealousy, insecurity, and a lot of negative feelings.

I think that's baloney. Those feelings come with relationships, hormones and our own insecurities. Love is something more pure than that.

I am not saying if you love someone, you will not have those feelings. I am saying those feelings are there because of the relationship and our insecurities. Don't blame love for that.

And relationship and love are two different things.

Maybe a lot of what I've written over here doesn't make sense. Maybe it's because love is really hard
to define. Maybe, scholars and philosophers have already defined it and I haven't read about it yet.

Sunday, June 10

Relaxing Home

We all want to find a perfect place where we can relax, unwind and de-stress. As busy persons, we always look forward at the end of the day when we can finally leave all the paper works, worry less about certain issues and rest all night long. 

These are just some of the reasons why I love staying at my place and coming home whenever I leave the house for some tasks. Nothing compares to the comfort and happiness that my pad offers me. The living room is full of photo albums that remind me of how I enjoyed life for the past few years of my existence. Whenever I feel a little stressed out, all I do is browse through the collection until I feel good again. The kitchen area is complete with items which allow me to express my emotions through cooking and baking. Of course, fulfilling my food cravings is also completely satisfying when done at home. My most favorite area of all is my room. This is my own personal space where I can completely feel less stress from work and other things.
Appliances for Home Owners

Appliances for Home Owners

Many home owners invest in getting the best appliances available in the market. They are willing to spend a part of their income if it means experiencing convenience and comfort in their homes. As we all know, these appliances and machines make our lives so much easier. We no longer need to work hard because of the advancements in technology. Everything is made easy and convenient.

For example, we do not need to spend the whole day cleaning our clothes, mattresses and other important garments. With the availability of a good washing machine, we can clean our laundry easily. In fact, we can even do other things while waiting for the machine to finish its job.

Thursday, June 7

Flaunt Around With Replica Breitling Watches

You are nicely accepted to come to the shops and examine the newest selection of Replica Breitling Watches, which went unique per week’s time back. Did you know that this could be the only selection of wristwatches providing you expertly developed products in most affordable of rates? Furthermore, there is no need to hurry to the shops now as the on the internet industry does the job for many clients. You are accepted at this industry too with arms available and it has been a coaster trip for the selection of replica Breitling watches watch as soon as it arrived at the racks. You cannot ignore the newest selection of Rolex timepiece imitation watch as it will provide you with the best excellent and as well as with modern styles. You can certainly secure horns with any style lover if you are dressed in the selection of replica Breitling watches.
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Tuesday, June 5

Hard Decisions in Life

The funny thing about life is that it only offers us two choices - either to hold on or to let go. There are many instances when we are left with no other choice but to let go of something that we have been holding on for so long. The reason for this action is not because we have grown tired of keeping that special thing in our lives but simply due to the fact that we have reached the limit (time). No matter how much we fight for that specific thing, we are always on the losing end. We have to remember that life is not full of genies. We cannot simply make our wishes and wait for what we've asked for to come true. In movies, it happens. However, in reality, it does not.

On the other hand, there are also times when we gather all the strength and courage we have in ourselves. Then, suddenly, we have that urges to continue fighting and moving forward just to keep the valuable thing. Deep down in our hearts, we find more reasons to fight for the battle in the belief that one day, everything will start to make sense. We have faith that whatever we've worked for will give us rewards in the end. 

Letting go and holding on. The question of what to do is hard to answer. No one knows what lies ahead which makes the situation more complicated. As human beings, we have the tendency to find assurance in everything we do. As much as possible, we would like to keep ourselves from failing. This is the primary reason why the decision of continuing and stopping becomes painful. No single person has the capacity to foresee what might happen tomorrow or next week. If it's possible, then the world could become a better and happier place to live in.
Father's Day Giveaway: Win $180

Sunday, June 3

Father's Day Giveaway: Win $180

It's time for a brand new giveaway! To celebrate the upcoming Father's Day 2012, I am hosting "Father's Day Giveaway: WIN $180 Cash." One lucky reader will get a chance to win the cash prize to spend on the special day. The money can be used to treat his or her dad on a fancy restaurant or shop for gift items at great stores.
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